
The Keys of Success:
Fame. Fortune. Power.
We live in a world that idolizes a trinity of success. Sure, we may also hear that humility, generosity, and kindness are valuable traits in a well-rounded individual. But many would prefer to be surrounded by people like that, rather than do the hard work required to actually exhibit these virtues.
We want to be seen, heard, and accepted.
Fame gets us that.
We want security, flexibility, and stability.
Fortune gets us that.
We want to be important, significant, and in control.
Power gets us that.
However, the more we understand about God’s economy, the more we know that it’s an upside down approach to life as we know it.
You want fame?
Reject the approval of man.
You want fortune?
Give it all away.
You want power?
Be a servant.
It doesn’t make sense.
Without God in the equation, it can be hard to let go of the pressure to make things happen for yourself. Our culture pushes a strong individualistic worldview to look out for #1. So letting go can feel like giving up! And to give up – is failure.
Especially in situations where we’ve worked so hard and deserve credit or recognition for our accomplishments. It is downright foolish to allow someone else the honour of our well-deserved and hard-earned accolades.
And yet this is what we’re called to…
I’ve been both awestruck and inspired by the story of a man named Joseph. Not Joseph, the stepdad of Jesus; but Joseph, the guy with the amazing technicolor dreamcoat.
We’re introduced to Joseph in Genesis 37 as a 17 year old punk kid with a big mouth and a chip on his shoulder. Need a recipe for worldly success? Joseph certainly appeared to aspire to that level of greatness.
Being the youngest of eleven brothers, Joseph would’ve had a lot to prove. Except lucky for him, he was their father’s favourite. And he knew it. So really, he didn’t even have to try to be noticed.
To add insult to injury for his ten older brothers, Joseph had a bunch of dreams implying that they would all serve him and even bow down to Joseph one day. Partly due to these outrageous dreams, as well as the preferential treatment shown to Joseph by their father, Joseph’s brothers orchestrated a plot to get rid of him.
Within just two small chapters (Genesis 37 and 39), we see that Joseph is ambushed, beaten, left for dead, sold into slavery, displaced to a foreign country, wrongfully accused of attempted rape, and wrongfully imprisoned as a result.

What Joseph lived through in these chapters is absolutely horrific. It’s the kind of stuff that would make a great movie, but nothing you’d ever sign up for in real life.
When we first met Joseph, he was arrogant, proud, entitled… all characteristics that come so naturally to so many of us (myself included, I assure you). And honestly, the most successful go-getters will often utilize these characteristics in order to achieve the success they crave.
Joseph’s trials changed him in remarkable ways. What I want to highlight here is just one little verse out of the many chapters that cover Joseph’s life.
So Joseph answered Pharaoh, saying, “It is not in me; but God will give Pharaoh the answer he wants, an answer of peace.”
– Genesis 41:16
If you don’t know how the rest of the story unfolds, this will be a major spoiler, my apologies.
But the guy that Pharaoh summoned from PRISON to interpret his dreams, pivots into the second in command of the most powerful empire the world had ever known.
But HOW?!
Because he trusted God. Because he gave God credit.
Because even though he was able to interpret dreams and was recognized throughout the land for it, he didn’t see it as a skill to practice or improve through hard work and will power.
He recognized that his ability to interpret dreams was a gift from God.
He did nothing to earn it, and could do nothing to keep it. He simply trusted in God’s sovereignty. Because of this, he didn’t fret about his fate. Rather, he placed his life in the capable hands of God. The One who could turn a young, foreign captive into a powerful ruler.
When I reflect on my own life; my own dreams, ambitions, aspirations… it’s easy to worry that things won’t turn out the way I hope or envision. I have big dreams and big hopes, as we all do! But Joseph’s story is such a valuable lesson for me.
You see, based on what I’ve come to learn about God’s character, I just can’t imagine Him raising Joseph to prominence had he still been running his mouth about how he’d be in a position of power someday.
He had to learn true humility. And learn to give credit where credit is due. For when the time came for him to prove himself and make something of himself, Joseph could say with quiet confidence (rather than arrogant pride)… it’s not me, it’s Him.
I know it can feel scary to let go of the reins and trust that God’s got you. But take heart! There’s more comfort to be found in Joseph’s story regarding this brave call to faith.
Just in chapter 39 alone, we read that, the Lord was with Joseph, not once or twice, not thrice, but SEVEN TIMES!!! That’s a big deal. If you’re like me, you know there’s no earthly success that can replace the peace of mind in knowing the Lord is with you.
Which is why I want to make clear that by success in this post, I’m definitely not referring to the rhetoric of the prosperity gospel, as I’m a staunch opponent of this view. The way I interpret godly success is in the Lord’s presence and provision. To sense that He is with me, and to know He is meeting my needs, there’s such goodness in that. I consider that to be a successful life.
And as Joseph told his brothers when they finally reunited, and Joseph’s childhood dreams are realized when all ten brothers bow before him:
You intended to harm me, but God intended it all for good. He brought me to this position so I could save the lives of many people.
– Genesis 50:20
The Bible doesn’t say this, but I’m willing to bet that Joseph couldn’t have predicted that his dreams would come to fruition in such a magnanimous way. Perhaps he thought his father would grant him the first born blessing, which was significant in those days, and that he’d be man of the house over his brothers. But to be second to no one but the mighty Pharaoh? It’s almost absurd.
But that’s God for you. In His upside down economy, it just doesn’t make sense.
Paul’s words in Romans are an echo of this inspiring story:

Its not me, it’s Him….Praise His Holy name. Tina, this is an amazing teaching moment. Thank God for His blessing on your life and the gifting he obviously has conveyed to you. 🥰
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Juanita, that is so kind of you to say, thank you! I’m so glad you enjoyed this post. God uses this little blog to stretch me and I’m blessed to know it touches others.
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It’s not me….it’s Him! Now and always! Amen!
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Amen! Thanks Linda!
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Tina once again I’m amazed at what the Lord has given to you, the wisdom and discernment and the way you’re able to bring out these very insightful points in a personal way, it’s quite amazing!! I’m so proud of you and how you are walking the path God has before you. Eph 2:10
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Wow, thanks Mom! That means so much to me!
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” It’s Not Me, It’s Him” really resonated with me. Tina, you have a God given gift for teaching and writing. God is showing us such important truths for today through His Word and Joseph’s story. I read chapter 39 again and this time in struck me how quickly the master believed her words. ( Genesis 39:19-20 )
Did he even hear Joseph’s side of the story? No. Verse 21 says it all though, “But the Lord was with Joseph…” Tina, your last scripture verse and paragraph felt as if Jesus was whispering to my own heart. Abiding with Jesus, especially when things don’t make sense, has made all the difference in my life. lt truly is not me, it’s Him. I love my Jesus, my closest friend!
Thank you Tina, this writing was a heart gift.
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Hi Linda! Thank you so much for taking the time to share with me. I’m so pleased to hear that this resonated with you! It has been a joy to research and write, and your comment made my day.
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Wow! I really loved this post Tina! What a good reminder “it’s not me, it’s Him…” a lifestyle that points directly to God and gives Him all of the glory. I find it can be so easy to get caught up in “my story”, “my success”, “my dreams & ambitions”, that I often forget that HE is the One writing my story, HE is the Author of all my success, and without Him, my goals dreams and ambitions will only reach that of my own human strength which is SO very limited! When I posture myself in humility, and lay my own ambitions aside, He chooses to use me for so much more because His kingdom purpose will shine through as I walk in obedience to Him.
I prayed years ago, that He would give me a life that proves the existence of God. A life that cannot be defined by mere human effort or explanation. I don’t think I realized the gravity of that request when I made it, but if my life reflects anything of the Father, I want His faithfulness, love, and mercy to define it. Because it is not me, it’s Him. ❤️
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Oh friend, reading this blessed me so much. What a light you are. Love you! 💘
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