Writing These Words on my Heart

Proverbs 3:1-4
My child, do not forget my teaching.
    Keep my commands in your heart.
They will help you live for many years.
    They will bring you peace and success.
Don’t let love and truth ever leave you.
    Tie them around your neck.
    Write them on the tablet of your heart.
Then you will find favour and a good name
    in the eyes of God and people.
The face of a girl who’s hiding God’s word in her heart!

Scripture memory is so close to my heart. I find it an exciting challenge to commit more and more Bible verses to memory, and I hope this post is contagious in that way!

In a previous post https://fromtheoverflow.home.blog/2020/02/07/milestones-memorials-and-the-years-of-4/, I briefly touched on how my journey with scripture memory began in 2010 when I was at a conference. The Lord impressed on my heart the importance of memorizing His Word, and I felt convicted to take that more seriously.

While at that conference, I met a woman about 10 years older than I was at the time (coincidently, she was about the age that I am now). I discovered that she had two young children, a small ministry, AND had memorized entire books of the Bible, one of which was the book of James.

I remember reflecting on how amazing it was that I sensed God wanted me to memorize His Word, and nearly right after that, I met a woman who was doing just that!

I also remember thinking that memorizing entire books of the Bible was beyond ridiculous, and I couldn’t imagine how she pulled that off with two kids to boot! I had all of ZERO children at the time. The most I was responsible for was a monstera plant, which I’m proud to say, is still thriving.

While still at that same conference, I came across this book in their bookstore:

100 Bible Verses Everyone Should Know by Heart
by Robert J. Morgan

This simple little book was an absolute game-changer for me in forming the habit of memorizing God’s Word. It’s divided into two sections. One section discusses the importance of committing God’s Word to memory, and what God says about this practice.

The second section lists 100 Bible verses everyone should know by heart and includes a short write up on each one, highlighting its context and importance for a daily walk of faith. It also includes a tip for memorizing each verse.

I got started on my memorizing journey right on my flight home from that conference. I was so excited!

When I got home, I devoted my mornings before work to adding verses to my list of memorized scripture. It took me a few months to get through the 100 recommended verses from the book, and then I started adding some other favourites to the list.

Every morning I would run through all the verses I had memorizes as though I were reciting a script from a play. The repetition really made them stick.

I kept this up for about a year and a half, with periodic breaks. But then halted altogether when my first son was born, due to mild postpartum depression (stay tuned for a future post on that can of beans).

This excerpt so beautifully sums up the benefits of scripture memorization:

When we memorize a word, phrase, line, or verse from God’s Word, it’s like implanting a powerful radioactive speck of the very mind of God into our own finite brains. As we review it or hear it spoken again, it sinks deeper into our heads. As we learn it “by heart”, it descends into the hidden crevices and fissures of our souls. As we meditate on it, it begins sending out its quiet, therapeutic waves of influence. And, as the apostle Paul said, we are transformed by the renewing of our thoughts (see Rom. 12:2)”

– Robert J. Morgan, 100 Bible Verses Everyone Should Know by Heart

Backtracking to one little anecdote in particular:

At some point, I considered taking a break from memorizing scripture because I felt like it had lost the spark it once had. So I prayed about it and asked God to show me what I should do. On that particular day, I had memorized a verse in Galatians.

That night, I dreamt that a masked man entered my apartment with a gun…

He pointed the gun at me, and shouted at me to renounce my faith or die. The gun was so close, I could feel the cold metal pressed against my face. And all I remember next is standing before this dark, commanding figure, and calmly reciting the verse I had literally committed to memory that very day:

I have been crucified with Christ and I no longer live, but Christ lives in me. The life I now live in the body, I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me.

– Galatians 2:20

When I awoke from that dream, I knew I had my answer. I don’t know what I’ll face in this life, but I want to be equipped and ready for it with the Word of God. A passion for memorizing God’s Word was renewed in me and I carried on with new resolve and zeal. It is a privilege to have access to the Word of God. It is a privilege to get to read it over and over and learn something new every time. I never want to take that for granted.

If you’re looking for a guide through scripture memorization: 10/10 would recommend!

I’m grateful for the foundation that that season of zealous memorization gave me. Because after I had children, I did not commit one more verse to memory until the fall of 2019.

I went from memorizing approximately 250 Bible verses in about 18 months, to nothing at all for about 8 years. It’s really sobering to put that in writing, and I’m trying not to regret all that time lost.

So, it was six months prior to writing this post that I was reminded of that woman I met at that conference all those years ago. Just an ordinary woman and mother, who memorized entire books of the Bible. Well, because of my obsessive, and sometimes overly ambitious personality, I decided to take on the book of James myself as she had.

I really wanted to write this post having completed memorizing the book of James.

  • 5 chapters
  • 434 verses
  • 6 months

But it didn’t work out that way. I am currently about 6 verses short of my goal.

And the truth is that it’s really really really really SUPER hard for me to press the Publish button on this post without having completed the book.

I know I’ll get there. But hopefully this vulnerability will speak louder than any arbitrary accomplishment could. Because I’m aware that my own made up deadline doesn’t actually mean anything to anyone but me.

Anyway!!! Enough about that…

Here’s why memorizing God’s Word is a good idea:

  • We are commanded to memorize scripture
    Perhaps a gentler way to put it is that we are called to memorize scripture. But either way, Moses told the Israelites to make God’s Word a regular part of their everyday lives, and we should too. Moses said it this way:

The commandments I give you today must be in your hearts. Make sure your children learn them. Talk about them when you are at home. Talk about them when you walk along the road. Speak about them when you go to bed. And speak about them when you get up. Write them down and tie them on your hands as a reminder. Also tie them on your foreheads. Write them on the doorframes of your houses. Also write them on your gates.

– Deuteronomy 6:6-9
  • Jesus set the example for us
    When Jesus was tempted in the desert after fasting for forty days, He didn’t get into a debate or squabble with the enemy. Satan tempted Him, and He responded with words from scripture that He had previously committed to memory. That’s it!
    I don’t know about you, but if God’s Word was good enough for Jesus in a challenging situation, then why wouldn’t it be good enough for me? I want to be READY when the difficulty comes! Not to fight against others, but to know the TRUTH against the lies that the enemy tries to use to bring me down. I want to be equipped from the inside out. Jesus modelled that for us and it inspires me to do the same.

If you hold to My teaching, you prove that you are My true followers. Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.

– Jesus, from the Gospel of John 8:31-32

So put on all of God’s armor. Evil days will come. But you will be able to stand up to anything. And after you have done everything you can, you will still be standing… so take the sword of the Holy Spirit. The sword is God’s word.

– Ephesians 6:13, 17
  • “But I just never know what to say…” (Hey! You’ll actually know what to say!)
    Thinking back on my growing up years, I often spoke without thinking, said things I’d later regret, or simply talked too much! In more recent years, I find myself considering more heavily what my words will be in a situation. Sometimes I don’t say anything at all for fear of saying the wrong thing. I’ve realized that I would rather speak the Words of God than my own words on a given topic. So memorized scripture has been so helpful to me when I want to encourage, challenge, bless, or comfort a friend. I trust God’s Words a zillion times more than I trust my own. So committing His Words to memory is a sure way to have the right thing to say when given the opportunity to speak into someone’s life.

All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness.

– II Timothy 3:16
Life hack: memorizing Bible verses goes exponentially better outdoors

There are many more great reasons to memorize scripture (verses, passages, or books), so if you don’t like those, feel free to Google more!

Here are some tips that have helped me commit scripture to memory:

  • LOOK FOR ACRONYMS, RHYMING WORDS, WORD ASSOCIATIONS, ETC.
    Once you’ve chosen a Bible verse to memorize, see what little tricks you can come up with to help you remember the words. Find key words that rhyme, or key words that start with the same letter, or alphabet patterns. These will all help you remember what’s next.
  • READ THE VERSE ALOUD
    Studies have shown that reading a verse out loud helps your brain retain the words more quickly and strongly because of the dual effect that speaking and hearing have on the brain.
  • [Read the verse aloud] OVER AND OVER AND OVER AND OVER…
    When you meet someone for the first time, it’s recommended that you repeat their name a few times to help you remember it. Experts suggest that it takes repeating something 30 times for it to be committed to memory. So just keep reading that verse over and over. Eventually it’ll stick!
  • START GLANCING UP WHILE READING THE VERSE AS YOU GROW FAMILIAR WITH IT
    My advice: don’t rush this part. You’ll find yourself more frustrated and impatient if you realize you didn’t know it as well as you thought you did, and you may feel like giving up.
    Get really comfortable with reading a verse out loud many times before taking your eyes of the page. And when you do, keep saying the verse over and over, glancing down when you need a prompt.
  • RECITE YOUR MEMORIZED SCRIPTURE ALOUD AND OFTEN!
    That’s it! Once you’ve memorized a verse, keep it fresh in your mind by going over it and over it and over it until you’re saying it without thinking, and then keep saying it!
Love me a good Bible flat lay!

Where do I start?

  • Choose verses that are meaningful to you
    Maybe you’ve chosen a life verse, or a verse for this year, or maybe one verse in particular helped you through a difficult time, or a friend gave you a verse that meant a lot when you really needed it.
    Whatever the context, if you have some favourites, start by memorizing those!
  • Here are some popular verses and passages I recommend:

For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.

– John 3:16

The Lord is my shepherd, I lack nothing.
    He makes me lie down in green pastures,
he leads me beside quiet waters,
    he refreshes my soul.
He guides me along the right paths
    for his name’s sake.
Even though I walk
    through the darkest valley,
I will fear no evil,
    for you are with me;
your rod and your staff,
    they comfort me.
You prepare a table before me
    in the presence of my enemies.
You anoint my head with oil;
    my cup overflows.
Surely your goodness and love will follow me
    all the days of my life,
and I will dwell in the house of the Lord
    forever.

– Psalm 23 [The Lord is My Shepherd]

24 “‘“The Lord bless you 
and keep you;
25 the Lord make his face shine on you
 and be gracious to you;
26 the Lord turn his face toward you
and give you peace.”’

– Numbers 6:24-26 [Prayer of Blessing]

Why memorize entire passages or books of the Bible?

  • It’s easier to actually learn something from what you’re memorizing because you are going over important teachings in the full context that they were written.
  • It’s easier to memorize a passage vs. a list of favourite verses because they actually flow into each other. Similar to memorizing the words of a song: the flow makes sense in your brain, and it’s easier to remember the verses that come next when they all actually go together in the first place
  • It’s a fun challenge. Like skydiving! Sort of…
  • If you want to memorize a longer passage of scripture, try it out with your favourite Psalm! The book of Psalms is essentially a collection of poems and songs, so they flow really easily in memorization.
Here’s one of my favourite memorized Psalms:

Shout for joy to the Lord, all the earth.
    Worship the Lord with gladness;
    come before him with joyful songs.
Know that the Lord is God.
    It is he who made us, and we are his;
    we are his people, the sheep of his pasture.
Enter his gates with thanksgiving
    and his courts with praise;
    give thanks to him and praise his name.
For the Lord is good and his love endures forever;
    his faithfulness continues through all generations.

– Psalm 100

Do you have any favourite verses committed to memory?
My hope and prayer, at the very least, is that this post makes you want to give it a try!

If you’ve got any tips that I’ve left out here, please share them in the comments! I’d love to hear from you.

Got Lost in the Story

If I’m honest, my love affair with literature has been hot and cold. Right now with our world in quarantine, it’s a blazing bonfire so you’re catching me at a good time for a little review and recommendations.

Not reviewing any of these because that’s a lofty endeavour and y’all should read them without my recommendations.
These editions are just aesthetically pleasing so that’s why they’re here at all.

Since I’m fully aware that some of my readers are highly educated intellectual types, I won’t even attempt to masquerade as any kind of authority on this gargantuan topic. Best to avoid biting off more than I can chew, right? So this post will be narrow, but thorough, as I share with you my favourite author and why I enjoy her work.

Before we begin, it should be stated that I am a woman and I enjoy reading romantic stories. Truly shocking, I’m sure. However, my interests are particularly drawn to all things historical, and they have been since I was a teenager. I also majored in history in university which only grew my passion for the days of yore and yesteryear. I simply prefer stories set in the past, especially anything prior to the 1950s. The early 20th century and the Enlightenment era rank among my favourite time periods. However, I’m not too quick to turn my nose at the medieval and ancient worlds either. I love it all and I am Here. For. It!

In fact, I’ll go as far as to say that if the characters in the books I’m reading have access to technology beyond a rotary telephone or a black and white television, we’ve come too far. Send me back to the days of uncomfortable corsets and questionable hygiene practices, and I am putty in your hands. Ok, ok, kidding! I love my iPhone and curling iron as much as the next girl. But don’t make me read about a pair of love birds sending each other DMs or swiping right. Thank you, next.

Just casually sipping coffee by my stack of classic literature, as you do…

*MAJOR DISCLAIMER: the titles AND COVER ART for the books I’m recommending are beyond cringe-worthy. so if there’s ever a time to NOT judge a book by its cover, this is that time!!
Both the titles and covers of these books make them look like the cheesiest of love stories. And although they do contain LOVE scenes, and there is cheese,

what draws me to these books is the heart of God for His people. As well as the strong female characters who overcome difficult challenges and do hard things. Things I know I haven’t the courage to do. They inspire me!

So without further ado, I’m happy to introduce my favourite author:

Francine Rivers!

The woman is brilliant in her writing style and meticulous story crafting surrounding the time periods within which she develops her characters and their experiences. She has written stories dating as far back as the prehistoric age, where we read her take on the story of Tamar from the Bible in Unveiled. Then fast-forwarding to time periods as current as today. Which means that, yes, because of my love for her, I indulged in her most recent novel set in present-day California, The Masterpiece, and it was amazing, okay? There, I said it.

So sue me. No, don’t sue me. That’s the opposite of the point I’m trying to make.

– M. Scott

Rivers’ most popular, and in my opinion, absolute BEST work is

Redeeming Love

As I’ve already said, the title is sappy, and the cover is sappy. So in my opinion neither of those communicate what’s at the heart of this story. It is raw and tragic and awful and absolutely brilliant.

It is a retelling of the Biblical love story between Gomer and the prophet Hosea, set against the romantic backdrop of the California Gold Rush.

Redeeming Love
by Francine Rivers

Here’s a synopsis better written than I ever could:

California’s Gold Country in 1850 is a time when men sell their souls for a bag of gold and women sell their bodies for a place to sleep. Angel expects nothing from men but betrayal. Sold into prostitution as a child, she survives by keeping her hatred alive. And what she hates most are the men who use her, leaving her empty and dead inside. Then she meets Michael Hosea. A man who seeks his Father’s heart in everything, Michael Hosea obeys God’s call to marry Angel and to love her unconditionally. Slowly, day by day, he defies Angel’s every bitter expectation until, despite her resistance her frozen heart begins to thaw. But with her unexpected softening come overwhelming feelings of unworthiness and fear. And so Angel runs. Back to the darkness, away from her husband’s pursuing love, terrified of the truth she can no longer deny: Her final healing must come from the One who loves her even more than Michael Hosea does… the One who will never let her go.

– Francine Rivers, Redeeming Love

The most captivating thing to me about Redeeming Love isn’t the love story or the characters, it’s the Father’s heart. I’ve read it so many times, and I am always humbled anew by the relentless, overwhelming, never-giving-up, yet liberating love of God displayed in these pages.
I love the way Rivers writes such a defiant and rebellious character in Angel (who I can too often relate to). And yet she is SO loved by God SO completely. When I reflect on this, it humbles me so much to be loved by God despite all the unlovable qualities I possess. And I see that written so beautifully in this story about a girl who runs from God until she realizes He is all she needs. So relatable!

Here’s some background info on Francine Rivers and How Redeeming Love came about:

For decades, Rivers wrote fiction novels with much literary success until, in 1986, she came to faith in Jesus. Following her conversion, Rivers stopped writing for a few years. Finally, she came across the book of Hosea the prophet in the Bible. She saw her own life mirrored in the story and felt compelled to write again. Redeeming Love is her statement of faith. It also modernizes the story of Hosea, which in itself mirrors the story between God and His beloved creation. It’s like a story in a story in a story. And it’s SO worth the read!

Mark of the Lion

Another work by Francine Rivers is a trilogy titled The Mark of the Lion set in 1st century Rome. There are two protagonists in these 3 books whose flaws and weaknesses really resonate with me. And unfortunately, I relate too often to both.

  • One woman, ruled by fear
  • The other, ruled by a big fat mouth
The Mark of the Lion
Trilogy, by Francine Rivers

While wealthy Roman citizens indulge their every whim, Jews and barbarians are bought and sold as slaves and gladiators in the bloodthirsty arena. Amid the depravity around her, a young Jewish slave girl becomes a light in the darkness. Even as she’s torn by her love for a handsome aristocrat, Hadassah clings to her faith in the living God for deliverance from the forces of a decadent empire.

– Francine Rivers, A Voice in the Wind
(first book of The Mark of the Lion series)

What Redeeming Love taught me about the heart of God for His people, The Mark of the Lion series taught me about what God could do through ordinary women with real struggles, trials, temptations, and fears.

Hadassah

Hadassah is a slave girl ruled by fear. Her story starts tragically when she loses her entire family and is forced into slavery. She is afraid of her own shadow. But in small, and brave steps of faith throughout the story, the Lord strengthens her and enables her to speak boldly and save many.
This fictional character, written during an unfortunately not so fictional time, inspires my faith and my resolve to be bold and courageous, even as I write these words to you now. Hadassah was often paralyzed by fear, allowing key opportunities to pass her by. But all was not lost, and she was still used by God for good. And I know I can be too, despite my own doubts and weaknesses!

Rizpah

Rizpah is a character we get acquainted with in the third book of this trilogy. She is a young widow who also tragically lost her child to illness before her story unfolds in the pages of the book. Rizpah’s blunt sarcasm and quick wit made me laugh so many times. But her speak-before-thinking incidents made me cringe far too many times as I heard my own voice in her verbal fumbles.
She says things she regrets. She is impulsive and irrational. And yet, the Lord still speaks to Rizpah AND speaks through her, using her to impact the people around her. I include myself among them since I learned a lot from Rizpah’s character, shortcomings, and unwavering faith. The Lord has used this fictional character to encourage, admonish, and comfort me in my own burden of a big mouth.

I have loved everything else I’ve read by Francine Rivers but for the sake of brevity, I won’t get into details on her other books here. Suffice it to say, I endorse them, and you should read them. Here are some of them:

  • The Masterpiece
  • The Atonement Child
  • Bridge to Haven
  • The Lineage of Grace
  • The Sons of Encouragement

Well friends, this post was originally meant to highlight several of my favourite authors, but alas, there’s just too much to say. So kindly consider this part 1 of a series on my favourite books and authors. Mostly historical fiction, you’ve been warned! The rest of my recommended reads will be shared at a later time. Thanks for following along!

Have you read anything by Francine Rivers?
If so, what are your thoughts on her work? Do you have a favourite?
If you haven’t, has this review piqued your interest?
I would also love to hear your recommendations too! Doesn’t have to be historical fiction – lay it on me!

*Since bookstores and libraries are closed for the Covid-19 quarantine period, you can still order these titles through online retailers such Amazon.

(how am I typing words like that in real life…!)

About Me

Hello, and welcome to my blog! You may be reading this as a stranger, a lifelong friend, or someone in between. Whoever you are, W E L C O M E ! I hope you’ll visit often. Stay tuned for the first official blog post coming soon. Until then, here are some random things about me:

  • I am a former history teacher
  • A former Montrealer
  • And a former breakfast-eater

Today, I am a stay-at-home AND work-from-home married mama of 3 kids (ages 8, 6, and 3). My husband is a pastor and has been for 13 years.

We live in Leamington, Ont. Our small town is surrounded by farms and greenhouses that mostly grow tomatoes, bell peppers, and weed. 

I’ve been intermittent fasting for just over a year now and I’m reallllllly digging it. I don’t think I’ll ever eat breakfast again!

I’m a lover of…

  • iced coffee
  • hot tea
  • white wine
  • and dark chocolate

These make up my four main food groups.

My early mornings include some alone time for prayer, journalling, and reading my Bible. I’m especially passionate about memorizing scripture! I’ve most recently memorized the book of James which took about 6 months to complete.

I used to hate autumn because it gave me anxiety about long winters. My pro tip on that:

Go live somewhere where autumn exists. 

Purging, decluttering, reorganizing, and rearranging are some of my favourite things. You can check out a post about that here!

I love to read historical fiction. And my guilty pleasure is YouTube videos on the evolution of fashion trends in the last 100 years. Allure and Glamour have some fun ones I linked here.

My blog posts will feature quotes by my kids and the Bible. But I’ll likely also quote Friends or The Office and assume you’ll get it when… sometimes I’ll start a sentence, and I don’t even know where it’s going. I just hope I find it along the way. Like an improv conversation.

I’ll start a sentence, and I don’t even know where it’s going. I just hope I find it along the way. Like an improv conversation.

– Michael Scott

My favourite place to visit is New York City. I’ve been a few times and I wish someone would just pay me to live there for a bit. Maybe as an expat blogger? Pretty sure that’s a thing. 

But truly, my husband and I hope to move our family to the countryside one day. That’s the real dream. So if you’re selling a couple acres of land, holla at yo girl.

Y’all may notice that I sometimes use phrases traditional to the UK and southern US. And frankly, that’s because some sayings just fit better, and I like them, and I do what I want! My husband always makes fun of that, but I fully intend to carry on until he no longer notices. 

Finally, this blog won’t likely have a very narrow focus like oils or recycling. Instead, I hope to share my musings on motherhood, marriage, and my faith, among other interests.  

Anything you’d like to read on here? Pretty please let me know in the comments below!

First official post coming soon so stay tuned! And of course, subscribe below!