A Place for Everything

… and everything in its place!

It’s impossible for me to say that phrase without hearing my mother’s voice in my head.

She declared that anytime she was ready to do an overhaul on our home and get things organized again. Although growing up, I’d say my mother was more organized in mind than in habit, her intentionality in home organization stayed with me. That said, I’d attribute my more obsessive need for order and structure to my father’s Type A personality, which I believe I inherited to a milder degree.

A word of warning:

When it comes to photo aesthetics, this post is not Martha Stewart worthy by any stretch of the imagination. My home is quite simple and dated in many ways. So if you’re looking to satisfy your need for the latest trendy home decor photo inspo, you’ve come to the wrong place.

These are just snapshots of organized areas that function well for my family’s needs. Some of them were built by my husband, others were thrown together by me with spare containers, repurposed product packaging, or dollar store finds.

Let’s dive in!

Entrance and Baskets

When we moved into our home, our entrance was nothing but blank walls, and the nearest entrance closet was only accessible by climbing a flight of stairs. Hello – not practical! Especially with kids!

Enter my handy husband with a creative flare. We already had a couple of IKEA shelves that we weren’t using. So he placed one on the floor, the other was secured to the wall, and between them my husband built what you see in the photo below. Kid and adult-height hooks were installed, and a mirror was hung in the middle. Baskets were purchased for cold weather accessories, and our entrance now had a home for footwear, coats, keys, shades, and more. This has been one my favourite and most practical additions to our home.

Takeaway Tip:

Baskets! Baskets! Baskets!

Baskets are an easy way to hide the chaos of storage, even if you’re not particularly organized. If you peak into those baskets, there’s nothing orderly about their contents at all. But it looks like we’re super organized, and sometimes that’s just the goal!

Hooks! Hooks! Hooks!

I still don’t think my kids can hang coats on a hanger, but a hook? We’ve got that down! It’s much easier to keep an entrance organized if kids can hang their own coats and jackets.

This was a blank wall when we moved in. We used IKEA shelves and other materials to put this piece together.

Junk Drawers

The easiest way to bring order to the chaos of a junk drawer is to add storage containers where junk items can be placed. So even if you’re not organized by nature, a few containers within a junk drawer will help keep things tidy.

If you’re feeling particularly orderly, try to organize your junk by size or category. The picture below has a container for essential oil rollers, one for quick mending supplies like needles and thread, another for pens and pencils, another for secret snacks, and one for miscellaneous items.

Takeaway Tip:

Reduce, Recycle… REUSE!

The majority of the containers in our junk drawers are boxes that once contained new iPhones or iPads, baby shoes, prescription glasses, etc. If the case is sturdy, it’ll be solid enough to house the random crap you’ve got lying around. This saves money AND the planet. Win-win!

Refrigeration and Tupperware

I cannot recommend Tupperware brand enough. And this isn’t even a sponsored post! My produce stays fresher so much longer when stored in FridgeSmart containers. To save space, the drawers where one would normally store produce now houses our dairy products such as milk, yogurt, and cheese.

For storing Tupperware or other plastic containers, this probably goes without saying, but just in case… Keep lids separate from the container and stack as best you can!

Takeaway Tip:

Buy the Tupperware! It is pricier than other brands but SO worth the investment. Frozen, microwaved, decades old, you name it. It is durable, practical, and makes a big difference in freshness for the food it’s storing. Again, not a sponsored post.

Endless Kitchen Utensils

When moving, the kitchen always takes the longest to pack and unpack. So it’s no surprise that it can easily become the most disorganized part of the house. Like I’ve already said, containers are an easy way to bring some order to your chaos without really trying. Some of the containers I use in our kitchen are from the dollar store (I know, I splurged here), but you can easily repurpose any containers that fit the utensils you’re storing.

Takeaway Tip:

Store items together that serve a similar purpose and/or are similar sizes. I have found this to be the easiest way to quickly find whatever I may be looking for, and also not misplace items I need.

Closet Hacks and Purging

When we moved into our home, this closet was, let’s just say…. in a very different state. The space wasn’t used to its potential so my husband came up with this layout using wall-mounted shelves, IKEA bookcases, curtain rods, and a dresser. In fact on top of that dresser is a small bookcase with the shelves removed and a curtain rod inserted in their place!

A custom closet makes it easier to stay organized. However, the most important thing is to maximize the space you do have by eliminating items that either don’t fit, or that you’re simply not wearing. When there’s less to put away, there’s less mess to be made. So….

Takeaway Tip:

Declutter! The 12 Month Rule: It can be hard to know where to start with decluttering your closet so I recommend this: If you haven’t worn an item in the last 12 months, there’s a very slim chance you will wear it again, so get rid of it! If this is too difficult, stretch it out to 24 months. You’d be surprised how few clothes are actually in regular circulation in your wardrobe, and how many just sit there waiting for their time to shine.

Folding Clothes: Marie Kondo-ish

After watching the Marie Kondo folding phenomenon I was amazed. But some of the techniques felt like too much work, so I modified a little to make it work for our spaces. Below are before and after shots of some of my husband’s drawers. I’m SO happy with the maximized space.

Takeaway Tip:

Fold shirts in thirds rather than halves and then stack them together like dominoes. You’ll save SO much space! I cannot recommend this enough. The second and third photos below featuring hoodies was a game changer too. That drawer couldn’t ever be closed and was always overflowing. I could easily fit a few more hoodies in there now using that technique. Message me if you’re interested in a video tutorial. It’s so quick and easy!

Built-In Dividers and Like-Item Storage

Our bathroom vanity has built-in dividers which helps make organization easier. Even with these separators, I still add our own containers to organize all the little things that a bathroom vanity holds.

Takeaway Tip:

Purge here too! Get rid of old makeup, product samples, or other unused items, and you’ll find it much easier to organize your space when there’s less to begin with. Keep items together that belong together. Makeup in one space, nail polish in another, hair products, lotions, etc.

No Dividers? No Problem!

I’m beginning to sound like a broken record, but if you haven’t caught on yet, get yourself some baskets and containers for storing items! Our kids’ bathroom doesn’t have any built-in dividers so I use dollar store baskets and repurposed containers similar to my junk drawer above to keep their toiletries organized.

Takeaway Tip:

Throw away expired medication! I’m sure I’ve had Advil older than my kids in some of these baskets. Anything unused and expired can be decluttered and thrown away to save space!

When Space is Limited

Our boys share a room, which means they share a closet. So far, we haven’t had to switch out clothes in season, though I’m sure that day will come. For now, this is how we’ve made it work:

  • Two mid-length rods attached to the back wall for hoodies, dress shirts, jeans, etc
  • Two drawers, each with short and long sleeve Ts in one; and shorts and sweatpants in the other
  • A shelf along the top for thick sweaters

Takeaway Tip:

Again, the Marie Kondo-ish folding method has been such a game changer in this very limited space! Folding shirts in threes and then stacking them helps the boys see all their choices easily, and allows for more to be stored in their small spaces.

Utilizing the Space Under Beds

When you’ve got more than one kid in a room, you’ve got to find creative ways to use dead space. Under beds = dead space!

My husband used a piece of plywood, a few wooden crates, and tracks for drawers to build these custom storage drawers under a bed. They house big toys like trucks and construction tools for now. But mostly they make it easy to tuck toys away out of sight.

Takeaway Tip:

Maximize dead spaces! Custom drawers are just one way to do it. But even more easily, you can pick up shallow Rubbermaid bins for out-of-season clothes or toys and store them under beds. Alternatively, you can add vertical storage such as bookcases or other shelving with baskets to keep things organized and out of sight.

Playroom Organization

Keeping kids toys organized feels like an ongoing, uphill battle. If you can’t relate, you’re probably not raising children? The easiest advice I can offer is PURGE. And a place for everything, and everything in its place can probably be best applied to this context. We are always getting rid of toys that no one plays with so that whatever we DO keep is actually being used and has a specific spot to be stored in when not in use. We also clean up daily. So before bed, all toys are put away. This avoids the compounded build up of mess. So no matter what kind of toddler tornado hits on a given day, it all gets cleaned up at the end of it.

Takeaway Tip:

Purge Purge Purge! When there’s less to put away, there’s less to keep up with. An alternative to this: remove toys temporarily and reintroduce them periodically. Especially for younger ones, this keeps their options fresh and exciting as they likely won’t remember the toys in the first place and won’t get so overwhelmed by seeing too many option at once. Less is more!

Find the kid in this photo!

Storage and Linen Closets

My favourite tip for closet storage is to use the plastic bags that comforters and bedding sets are packaged in upon purchase. Fold your items neatly with like-items (bedding, table cloths, towels, etc.) and store them together.

These bags are usually transparent so it’s easy to quickly find what you’re looking for when you need it! Whatever is used more frequently, make more accessible. For example, in the summer we keep beach towels on the main shelf, in winter months, throw blankets claim that spot.

Takeaway Tips:

  • Store like-items together
  • Use plastic packaging to keep things neat and visible
  • Rotate seasonal items for easy access

Final Thoughts and Tips!

  • Purge and declutter!
  • Utilize baskets and reusable containers!
  • Fold clothes the Marie Kondo way (ish)!
  • Maximize vertical storage and dead space!
Wearing an apron makes you a domestic expert, didn’t you know?

Thanks for reading along!
Like I said at the start, this post isn’t meant to be magazine-worthy, and I definitely don’t have all the best ideas for organization. But hopefully these humble, practical ideas will be useful to you if you need them!

Have any thoughts or questions? Hit me up in the comments or send me a message! I would love to hear from you!

Raising Readers in a World of Screens

My dear friends and beloved readers, I’ve stated from the onset that I am no expert on any of the subjects I venture to write about here…

this post is no exception…

I am fully aware that screen time is a sensitive and controversial topic, and sometimes the source of conflict in the home. Especially when it comes to screen time and kids. Writing about this topic feels as foolish as discussing politics on the internet in the middle of a global pandemic. But I never did claim to be a wise gal, so here we go!

What I really hope to offer here are ideas, alternatives, and tips to encourage a love of reading, creativity, and even boredom – as well as some healthy boundaries surrounding screen time, if you feel they’re needed.

Our happy place: Leamington Library (pre-Covid)

Some of you know of my family’s limited-screen approach. While I realize going completely screen-free isn’t realistic or even desired since screens are increasingly a valuable part life, I DO think it’s possible to adjust to your screen time guidelines so that they work for your family’s specific needs and goals if that’s something you want!

Why we’ve limited screens:

  • Because we’ve personally experienced the addictive nature of technological devices
  • We believe our kids can make better use of their time, especially at the ages of 7, 6, and 2 yrs
  • The use of screens will inevitably become a regular part of their lives, that’s not the case just yet
Screen-free early morning chats over breakfast

How we wound up where we are with screens

Please know that my husband and I didn’t set out to be a screen-free family before having kids. Our limited screen activity just sort of happened. It’s shamefully easy for us to say ‘no’ to our kids. So we don’t usually let them use devices when they ask. Even from when they were babies grabbing our phones, we’d simply take them back and hide them out of sight. So they never really got used to handling phones or tablets from young ages.

What that looks like now

After so many months without school or regular activities, we have loosened our screen time restrictions quite a bit. Pre-Covid, our kids could easily go days without seeing a screen. But now I’d say our eldest will usually go on a tablet daily and both boys will sometimes watch a movie or show as well. Still for the most part they’re accustomed to filling their days with other activities. Once school rhythms begin, we’ll likely restructure our screen use again, time will tell!

Reading to his brother and sister is his full time job some days

What the pros have to say…

*Because like I said, I’m not definitely one of them!

The World Health Organization states that the younger a child is, the less screen time is recommended. That shouldn’t come as a surprise to any of us, but it’s worth noting as we all try to balance our children’s use of time.
You can look up the WHO for more information, but if this general guideline resonates with you and you want to make changes to your family’s screen use, it would be helpful to identify the moments when allowing the use of screens is especially tempting.

For example:

  • First thing in the morning
  • Whilst eating breakfast
  • Killing time prior to leaving for school
  • During a commute
  • After school to unwind
  • Before dinner
  • After dinner
  • Before bed

This is just my list. But I recommend doing this to help you decide when you might make changes to screen use.

I love catching her reading in her bedroom

When our kids are bored, which isn’t the end of the world(!), here are some activities they enjoy besides reading.

  • writing stories
  • draw, paint, colour
  • musical instruments
  • lego
  • imaginary role play games
  • card games and board games
  • sports
  • build forts
  • wrestle
  • race
  • dance parties
  • trampoline
  • play outdoors
  • etc.
I often find piles of books and kids together

Quiet times throughout the day.
What does that look like?

Early morning reading before the sun is up

Morning… Afternoon nap… Bedtime…
This is the trinity of silence in our home where we try to keep things calm and quiet. It’s also when I personally find the use of screens to be tempting. We’ve found that the best way to avoid a default to screens in these moments is to plan ahead. Before bed, we pick out books the boys want to read in the morning and they keep them nearby so they’re easily accessible when they wake up.

After lunch while I get their sister ready for her nap, we decide together what they’ll do during that quiet time. They often like to read or choose to play lego or draw/write.

Bedtime is the same. We discuss together what they can do before bed. Lately a request for screen time is more common and this is where we usually allow for a movie or show. Otherwise it’s a reading time in bed as well.

A couple o’ readers and a lego creator

When do we allow screen time?
What does that look like?

TV Shows, Sports, and Movies

On weekends we watch family movies together but we also spend evenings playing card games, board games, lego, reading, etc. The boys also enjoy watching football or hockey with their dad.

My husband is out of the house for sometimes up to three evenings per week. This leaves me doing dinner and bedtime alone, so with three kids, I am very outnumbered. On these nights, the boys get to watch a movie or a show before bed.


Here are some current favourite shows:

The bots go on adventures to the human world to help answer kids’ biggest questions, like “Why is the sky blue?” or “Why do I need to brush my teeth?”
Set in the 23rd century, two friends and robot travel with Superbook to Bible times and make connections to the biblical characters they meet along the way.

Tablets

We have an old iPad which the boys use a few times a week. Our eldest likes to look up YouTube videos on how to draw characters from Star Wars or Dogman. He also enjoys the Bible Project series, Wikipedia articles, and documentaries on anything from How the Titanic sank, to How many species of beetles there are, and of course, The American War of Independence because, Hamilton obsession (Yes, I know we’re 5 years late on that).

He could be on an iPad all day doing his research and watching videos, but we still try to limit that and balance out his activity despite the educational value of what he’s doing.

Watching scenes from Star Wars!

* I’m aware that not all screen activity is equal!
There’s a whole world of educational apps and programs out there that we just haven’t really tapped into yet. I’m sure that day will come. Please hit me up in the comments with your recommendations!

Traveling and Waiting

Our extended families both live in Montreal. So screen time on our drives looks like 2 movies each way. That’s about 3 to 4 hours of screen time over a 10-hour drive. The rest of the drive is filled with lego, books, games, colouring, singing, family chats, staring out the window, etc.

Life hack! These dollar store trays make for great travel tables when the kids want to colour or build with lego!

We also live about a half hour from our nearest big city. So on errand days or for doctor appointments, we bring books to read while we drive and wait! Besides reading, our drives become great opportunities for chats about things they’re curious about such as, How do police dogs find things with their noses? or Why is Pluto no longer considered a planet?

We also like to play games like I Spy, The Alphabet Game, or Would You Rather, etc.

I’ve loved watching their relationship develop in these simple, real life scenarios of long drives and waiting rooms. I especially love learning about how their minds work as they discuss the world they’re observing around them.

Always a treat to browse Indigo Bookstore on Windsor errand days

Thus concludes our screen experience and alternatives.

Keep reading for our favourite bibles, BOOKS, AND GAMES!

Bible recommendations

We are BIG into Bible-reading in our house! We have a small collection of Bibles to choose from so the stories are always fresh, exciting, and insightful. Here are some of our favourites.

This comic Bible has very accessible language for kids
10/10 would recommend
The Jesus Storybook Bible is my personal favourite.
The language is so beautiful, even for adults.

Book recommendations:

C enjoys fiction, non-fiction, and trivia books:

  • Encyclopedia Brown
  • Magic Tree House
  • Captain Underpants
  • Dogman
  • Star Wars anything
  • Hockey magazines
  • Guinness World Records, Ripley’s, etc.
  • History books, biographies, etc
Ready to read in any setting, beach included!

L likes early readers books with great illustrations
(he’s still learning to read), especially:

  • Lego books
  • Lego magazines
  • Lego instruction manuals
  • Star Wars
  • Ninjago books
  • Marvel Avengers
  • DC Justice League
I find him in the most random spots reading the most random things

E is only just being exposed to the world of literature. Her literary interests are on the topics of:

  • puppies
  • kitties
  • babies
  • herself, in photo albums
Pint-sized books for a pint-sized girl!

Game recommendations:

Not an exhaustive list of games, but some of our current favourites

The local library

Books are expensive! And if your kids go through them as quickly as mine do, you’ll want to get yourself a library card. We LOVE library days and have found that regular visits to our local library is the best way to ensure access to fresh reading material for FREE.

Leamington Library!
With libraries closed during the pandemic,
we’ve taken advantage of the curb side pick up service!

Reading incentives:

This may sound ridiculous, especially if you don’t have children, but anyone with kids past the age of infancy knows a little bribe goes a very long way. And I don’t even care. If your kids don’t like reading, pay them to do it! Growing up, my mother gave us reading lists over the summer and would pay us a quarter per book completed. Bonus quarter for finishing the list by a certain date. (This was the 90s people, a whole dollar made you rich back then.) Boy, did I ever love to read that summer!
I’m cheap, so prefer to bribe my children with screen time or junk food. Go ahead and judge me, but it’s amazing how the promise of a handful of Skittles at the end of a reading rainbow can turn a kid into a bookworm.

*Bonus tip!

Play all the music! It may sound too easy, but we have found that our kids don’t get bored as easily when there’s music on filling the air space. Here are some of our favourite artists and genres that inspire the best toe-tapping kitchen dance parties:

  • Worship music by Hillsong
  • Elevation
  • Bethel
  • Upperroom
  • Hamilton soundtrack
  • Guardians of the Galaxy soundtrack
  • The Beatles
  • The Eagles
  • Queen
  • John Mayer
  • Big Band/Swing/Jazz
  • etc
Reading on our picnic at the beach

Bottom line:

Do what works for you! If your child’s screen use is something you want to change, decide what you want to change, and then go for it!
Find common ground with your partner, have a family meeting, start small, and don’t get discouraged if you take 1 step forward, 2 steps back.
It’s your family, and no one will work harder for what you want it to look like than you will.

We don’t have perfect days, and sometimes I cave into screens and need to remind myself it isn’t the worst thing ever. Maybe this is easier for you than it is for me? It’s just something I’m working through and maybe we all are!

Local Library Love (pre-Covid)

I hope you’re not reading this discouraged or defeated; rather, inspired and invigorated! If you want to discuss further, feel free to message me. I’d love to hear from you!
If you have your own tips to share, please comment!

As always, thanks so much for reading along. I’m so grateful.